Thursday, November 29, 2018

Nature's Beauty



The one who changes with time,

the one who make us alive.

The one who cares for us,

the one who give pleasure.



We change our lifestyle,

with time we feel delight.

Change is good for life.

Oh! It is true.



Time is very precious,

as we know!

Seasons comes and go.

Seasons comes and go.



Accept the changes,

and enjoy the beauty.

Nature is love,

Indeed! Nature is love.



Various seasons and their nature

is so different from each other.

All season is special.

Whether, it is, spring, summer, monsoon, autumn, or winter.



We enjoy every single season.

Isn't it?

As girl's love to shop trendy cloths;

Boy’s love to travel.



Every individual adore differently

as per their choices.

Some loves summer or monsoon,

other loves Winter.



As we all are heterogeneous,

our choices are unalike.

Still we never complain

and live our life.


Personally, I love monsoon.
Clouds moves here and there,
and plan for a loud cry.
Thunders are too scary,
but I love the vibes.

Tell me your favourite season?



Tuesday, November 27, 2018

Bitter Truth About Life You Can't Avoid.



Life inevitably slaps you in the face.

You can try as long as you possibly can to avoid it, but it’s coming all the way long.

I know it sounds bit depressing, because few people consider it in this way. In fact, there’s always some reason behind existence of depression. Life becomes pretty hard and unmanageable. And words are not enough for expressing the toughness of life. Even it goes way deeper than that, full of frustration and irritation. You become too sensitive and try to avoid others. It’s really a heart-breaking situation.

I know, I know, because I faced that phase at one point in my life. It was unforgettable and terrible phase of my life.

Losing mates, parents, multiple failed friendships and stuck in a career plan. Such an off full time it was.

Totally horrible, lots of blame, being a victim it was really tough time. And it demotivated me so badly.

But fortunately, I found the right way on time. You always do if you give it enough time. I know, sometimes everything goes wrong and push you down badly. But try to understand the situation, stand up and fight for it.

Always remember one thing, life will hit you very badly and check your courage. As soon as possible accept this fact, life is tough and will never be easy.

You learn various experiences from every single failure; accept it with positive thoughts and heart.

Try hard and achieve your goals.

You know what!
You become a better person after facing your failure.


Now, let’s see some bitter truths of life –

First of all,

1.      People will take advantage of you and get away with it

Sometimes, it is important to set some boundaries in your life. You’re matured enough to differentiate between right and wrong. So, set boundaries in initial stages.  

But remember, everyone comes to teach you some lesson in your life. I know it is hard to accept, but accept this truth. Positivity is the key to boost your energy.

I was a doormat, for many of the friend. I was easy to take advantage of; I always tried anything I could to keep the friendship afloat.

They snuffled it out and used it in their favour.

Don’t blame yourself for any misfortune. Learn from it and try to avoid such situations in your life.

Remember, it’s a human nature to take advantage where you can. Think in a positive direction. I know it makes you sad, but you gain some experience.

Why people compare their life with other?

Sometimes, you hurt your close ones for your happiness.

Isn’t it?

Earlier, I blame people who took advantage of me, I can’t stop myself. I’m the one who took faulty decisions. It’s a tough time. I had the choice to walk away, but I didn’t.

Accept your weakness and work on them. Even with boundaries, people will consequently take advantage of you and you won’t see it coming. So, just relax and enjoy your life. It’s part of your life and you have to face them.



2.      Even with hard work, things don’t always work out.

Sometimes, even after hard work you face the failure!

Usually, people have this conception that hard work always leads to success!

Hard work pays off for sure, but are you working in right direction or in right way?

 There are two types of people in this world:

a)      Who work hard even after a lot of failures.

b)      Who skip their goals after a single failure.


      Isn’t?

    The conception that hard work equals success is true.

    But you have to work hard for long period of time to achieve success. Defiantly, it took time.

    Success only follows you when you put all of your efforts and patiently wait for it.

    Learn from your failure, avoid those mistakes and work hard day by day.

   One fine day,

   Yes, one fine day, success touches your feet.

   Just wait for it!



3.      People walk out of your life without explanation, even if you deserve one.



I think we’ve all experienced this with our friends and partners.

People come and go in your life for some specific reasons. They are as sugary as Jalebi; as peppery as chilly flakes.

Friends have done real damages in my life.

As much as you deserve an explanation, they don’t have to give you one.

       You are the only one, who can heal your pain. You have to be mature enough to avoid such people who hurt you.  Be confident and face your instincts
         
       Motivate yourself and boost up you positive energy. Understand the situation and handle yourself. Accept it and you’ll be fine in no days.

         Live your life happily!

       Stop looking for any explanation to survive and move on. It’s far better to flush them out of  your life as soon as possible.

       Life will teach you a lot many different lesson wait  for it patiently!

       Stay happy and choose your mates wisely.



             Life is tough, my darling, so are you.

-        Stephanic Bennett Henry

Saturday, November 24, 2018

The Quickest Route is Usually the Boldest.

You always search for various sorts of questions in your day to day life.

Don't you?

Sometimes, it's really confusing and irritating. 
A huge bunch of unanswered question hits you and your mind. You feel low and disappointed.

Nowadays, it's too common. Everyone present their faces this problem.

Questions like:
What is the fastest way to achieve goals?
How to be successful man/women?
How to lose weight in no time?
And, many more.

Right?

Everybody is trying hard to achieve what they want but, very few feel the vibes of victory.

Sit down and think what you want in your life, reason behind your happiness, your objectives, and your interest.

Follow these three rules of life,

Think deeply, before taking any step!

Plan everything (every single thing)!

Be patient!

You are brave and intelligent enough to achieve anything in your life. Just feel positive and happy.
Remove negative thoughts and try to avoid negative company of people.


You are aware of this idiom,
          
                               Slow and steady wins the race.

If you work slowly but constantly, you will succeed better than if you work fast for a short while and do not continue.

Understand this concept and work hard.


My Journey - 

What's a faster way to become a great public speaker?

From beginning, I always search for this question. I'll go through a lot many different articles as well as video clips based on improving public speaking. I want to be like Tony Robbins, one of the world's best public speaker. He is my inspiration. His thoughts, perceptions, and mentality are so astonishing. 

I always prefer to watch his videos whenever, I feel low or sad. He is so motivating and inspiring. 

I remember my old school days; I'm very introvert throughout my school. 

In 9th standard, I start exposing different fields. I changed my school and its bit hard to adjust. New people and new life. I always talk to very few selective people. 

Turning point of my life, I meet 2 encouraging teachers who always praise and motivate me for my work. Such a positive soul they are, words are not enough to express my gratitude. It takes long 3 years, slowly and calmly I face my fear and feel the vibes of victory.


 "Success is doing what you want to do, when you want, where you want, with whom you want, as much as you want."
                                                                                                                                 - Tony Robbins



Conclusion - 

Imperfections are parts of life. I think it's sad that some people feel that because being perfectly consistent with your values is impossible, that there is no point trying debug the inconsistencies.
Choose your goal and plan for it until you achieve it.



Monday, November 19, 2018

AN AMIGO

  
Age 3 years, two unknown kids with tears welled up in their eyes, wrew grabbing their parents hand and pulling them along with.

Little did they know that they were seeing their parents for the last time for that day.
A brown stuck hindered their way and the kids held their parents hand kore firmly.

"You're not allowed, sir"- the owner of the brown stick replied.
The kids wanted their parents entry too with them.
Pleadings were followed by sobs!
The two kids rubbing third eyes started parting from their parents.
Two different ways but the same destination!
Two unknown faces but the same expression!


           Beginning of a New Journey

Both the kids were escorted by some caretakers and made to sit in the same place. Dried tears, licking their lips, both shared a look and came closer - a minute pause and the one muttered "POKEMON".

The other snatched and said "mumma, gifted it to me".
With this fights, a journey started, a new bond was built and the two kids started discovering their world.


Years went on,
This two kids grew up with same mannerisms inculcated in them, still sitting together but now their POKEMON topic has lost it's relevant, they now speak of common feeds of the campus.

They were growing up-
They have started knowing the world!
They have started rejuvenating themselves!
They have started paving their ways to their dreams!
Yes, they have started growing up!


Age 10 years, they both grew up into hooligans - hooting and shouting with no minimal shame and manners.

Everything underwent a change but the bond they have built was left unlocked and unbroken.


From sharing tiffin's during break time to teasing girls, raising unnecessary fights, they started growing up -

Age 17 years, dressed in formal suits, they both appeared.
The spectator hooted and shouted.
The spectator bowed!
The spectator welcomed and cheered them.
Yes, they have grown up!
They have known the world!
They have been rejuvenated!
They have completed the journey of their togetherness!


Among all the jeering's, they were sobbing-

Tears welled up in their eyes again, embracing each other they held their hands firmly.
They knew that they were seeing each other for the last time.
This separation was much more painful than they had been through years back.


Their way was similar now
But,
The destination has changed.


P.S. : A friend knows your past, believes in your future and welcome your today. Guys, no wonder you have visualized the picturesque. Childhood friends are those who knows you by heart and mind, gets aquainted with all your mannerisms and moreover are always there for support and encouragement. You may cross thousands of people, make hundreds of friends in your life but that one friend from our old school days will always occupy the maximum place in your heart and mind no matter what the circumstance is. 

Friday, November 16, 2018

It's OK if people don't like you!


Why you always think about other people before taking any step?
Why you sacrifices your opinions or goals for other?

Worrying about what other people think of you kills creation, innovation, motivation, power and doing things which really matter.

Always feel proud and happy about your own ideas. Try to overcome your fear.
Your are going to meet a lot many peoples in your life. Some likes you and some hates you. Don't feel bad, all human are different and they have different mentality.

I know it's a common thought 'people don't like me'.
Some people don't like me.
I know it's hard but try to accept it. Every individual is different alike their thoughts.

It's taken many, many years. But I accept this fact now!

I'm unaware about everything when I was eight or nine years old. I do whatever suits me, and I didn't think twice about my moves. I always roam here and there with my friends, like a small kid.
It may happen, people think I'm weird or annoying. Maybe someone didn't like it. Or me.

Few time later, I heard a lot many stuffs about me. It's really hard to accept, but it's total fine I can't change their mentality.

It's better to accept things as soon as possible!

Remember one thing, feel good about yourself. Don't feel bad due to others. It's  your life right so do whatever you like.

I love to dance since I was nine and was really good at it. I love to spend hours and learn different Bharatanatyam moves. After few years, I found it out it wasn't that cool. So I left my passion just because Bharatanatyam wasn't to cool.
Look! I left my passion for others.

Did you face such situation in your life?

Throughout my college, I would constantly filter my thoughts before saying anything in front of other. I'm scared, will people think my ideas are cool? Will they accept me? Will they think more about me?
So many unanswered questions! I always felt bad about myself  because I'm not able to share my true opinion, agreed with others. Even the pressure was too high it squash my thoughts. I changed my thoughts and lifestyle for other.
I lost all hopes and was trying to be what other people wanted me to be. At the end, I lost myself in impressing other.

Earlier, I love to talk a lot with everyone, but due to this incident I start ignoring people.

I start spending time in library and start gaining new habits. I love to read comic books, novels.
Books are very positive and carry bunch of different knowledge, with the help of books I build up self-esteem. Books change my whole life.
I must says, reading book is really good habit, it gives you various technique  or ideas to overcome your problems.


Team of Individual always rock!

Every individual is different and each brings something special to the world. All are different, your background, genetics, upbringing, as well as your experiences. You learn from your experience. Even your perspective defer from others due to different experiences.
Don't put any limitations in your life. You can do every single thing in your life. Just boost up yourself and give your level best.

Live together, work together,and  increase power of your work! 
Don't feel shy or don't demoralise yourself. Fight for your goals and achieve it with your power.
Discuss and debate if you are not agreed. You need to push each other to bring out best. Remove one thing from your life- what other people think. This thought always put limit in your life and it's really hard to live. Be yourself and work hard.  

Respect other as well their ideas. Don't ignore anyone's idea everyone are born to express. So, support and grow together. Be careful before you speak it may hurt someone's intension. Everyone is hyper-sensitive think about other feelings and condition.

No one is perfect! Rather than pleasing someone change yourself. Be positive, support other and respect their thoughts, but it doesn't mean you have to agree with everybody. In fact, discussion and debate are essential to bring out reality.

Respect and agreement both concepts are totally different. You have to care deeply about other intentions, but at the same time have zero care about what they think about you. You can simply say I love and respect your concept, but I'm not agreed with you. Even you disagree behave nicely.


Conclusion - 

Don't let the fear of disappointing someone, or making someone mad or hurting someone's feelings get in your way. You all are different and wanted love from others, but try to understand that, sometimes, we may not be liked. Learn from your experiences and enjoy your life.


















Wednesday, November 14, 2018

Parental Love


Hello people, let's talk about something very common and similar.

First, I want to ask you one question, Do you love your parents?
I know it sounds funny, but I'm not joking.

Read it carefully!

They always fulfil our dreams,
From birth; till death.
They always supports & motivates you,
Don't they?
Then why you show attitude in front of them.
Why?
Do they ever avoid you?
No, never.
They are the one who stands by your side
Whether, you needs them or not.
And what you are doing?
Denying & ignoring their opinions.
What's their fault?
Can anybody tell me.
What do you want ?
They start avoiding & ignoring you!
Don't forget, they sacrifices their whole life,
just for your happiness.

Stop! misbehaving in front of them.
Just STOP it!
YOU are so selfish!
Yes, you are selfish.
Whenever, you needs them you talk nicely.
Afterwards, you shout on them.
WHY?
Think before you speak, just think!
Do you know why they always listen to your taunts?
Because they truly loves YOU.


Now, 

Do you remember your childhood?
So many funny incidents. 
Sit and think about it!
I promise you will enjoy your journey.

My Journey :

I remember my childhood very well, I ask a lot many stupid questions and irritate my parents.
I love to listen funny incidents of my past, and laugh like a monkey.
I still remember, my parents calls me our chatterbox. I go out of control when I'm talking.(giggles)
Being a cranky child, I always destroy my toys after sometime, and demands for some new ones.
I always apply one trick whenever, I need something I start crying like a crocodile, and results are positive. 

How do you define happiness?

For me, spending time with parents is known as happiness!

Time :

As you all know, time is very precious.
Your parents, adjust time slot for you and your happiness.
Now, its your turn to return some happiness. Spend some time with them, talk to them, have dinner with them, whatever, suits you.
Don't forget they teach us how to walk, how to talk, everything in our childhood.
In short, you can call them your mentor!

Conclusion -

So, on the auspicious occasion of children's day, try to bring some change in your behaviour. 
I know, all of you are quite busy in your life, but I must say manage some time and spend it with your family. They don't need expensive gifts, they need you and your happiness!
Sit together and refresh memories of your childhood.

I promise you feel grateful, after seeing the smiling faces of your parents.

Lastly, I want to say

Parents are your God, 
Parents are your Guide,
Parents are your Friend,
Thank you, Mom and Dad.
For your unconditional love and support
words are not enough for your love.
I love you!


























Monday, November 12, 2018

Beauty of Uttrakhand

     
                                 Uttrakhand

Firstly, I like to share some heart taking pictures with you all.


Enjoy the view!



Kempty Fall, Mussoorie


Dhanaulti, Uttrakhand





Sunset 🌄



Hotel room view



Mussoorie, come under one of the most famous places to visit. People always talks about its nature, even it's true it looks magnificent. 

If you are a travel freak person then I must say, convince your friends or family, and plan a trip.

 The ideal time to visit Mussoorie is between the months of November to January,  the climate of Mussoorie is pleasantly cold and balmy.
Pack your bags nicely and carry a lot of warm clothes along with you.

I'm a shopoholic person and most of girl's love to shop. So, I suggest you to never forget to go to Mall Road, a mini market. Girl's buy as much you can!

Even you can enjoy sports like: paragliding, roller skating, and river rafting. 

Spend some quality time and enjoy your vacations.
Click tons of photgrahs, and share it with your friends. 

Laslty, I like to say Uttrakhand, you are pretty amazing!

Me and my friends are really happy, we enjoyed every single bit of peace and happiness. We spend 3 days, and goes through different Cafe's, and took late night walks. For the very first time, I goes out of my comfort zone and tried paragliding. I'm scared like anything, but at the end I gain some new experience.
Try new adventures in your life, and fell alive.

Travel as much you can,
Share memories with your friends,
Laugh and feel alive.
Friends it's a part of life,
Add as many memories you can.
Add as many memories you can.

Saturday, November 10, 2018

Queen of Hills ( Mussorrie)


Mussoorie- 


You always search for good traveling places.
Right??
You scroll each and every website for better option.

You and every single human present there do have their own choices.
Even choices varies from person to person.


Places -
I have a lots of friends and their choices varies from each other. 

Some suggests for tracking, paragliding, swimming and etc.
Due to this I always get confused. Even I drop our plans.

This weekend I went to Mussoorie.
I can't express it's beauty, simply in words.
If you love environment, grennary, or nature.
Then what are you waiting for pack your bags and begin your trip.


☮️

Those rocks & waterfalls full of green grass,
Those pretty humans full of hopes.
Looks here and there in peace,
Looks here and there in peace.
Nature gives them their inner peace.

Those birds with beautiful voice,
Took their heart.
They dance in joy,
They dance in joy.
And forget their sorrow.

All took one step ahead in there life,
And accept the beauty of nature.
Nature works like a meditation,
Nature works like a meditation.

I can never replaces the beauty & memories of Mussoorie.

Irritating souls!

You still fight like a monkey with them.  Reasons are so silly, but you love to tease them. Oh! Yes, yes. Hitting each other ...