Why you always think about other people before taking any step?
Why you sacrifices your opinions or goals for other?
Worrying about what other people think of you kills creation, innovation, motivation, power and doing things which really matter.
Always feel proud and happy about your own ideas. Try to overcome your fear.
Your are going to meet a lot many peoples in your life. Some likes you and some hates you. Don't feel bad, all human are different and they have different mentality.
I know it's a common thought 'people don't like me'.
Some people don't like me.
I know it's hard but try to accept it. Every individual is different alike their thoughts.
It's taken many, many years. But I accept this fact now!
I'm unaware about everything when I was eight or nine years old. I do whatever suits me, and I didn't think twice about my moves. I always roam here and there with my friends, like a small kid.
It may happen, people think I'm weird or annoying. Maybe someone didn't like it. Or me.
Few time later, I heard a lot many stuffs about me. It's really hard to accept, but it's total fine I can't change their mentality.
It's better to accept things as soon as possible!
Remember one thing, feel good about yourself. Don't feel bad due to others. It's your life right so do whatever you like.
I love to dance since I was nine and was really good at it. I love to spend hours and learn different Bharatanatyam moves. After few years, I found it out it wasn't that cool. So I left my passion just because Bharatanatyam wasn't to cool.
Look! I left my passion for others.
Did you face such situation in your life?
Throughout my college, I would constantly filter my thoughts before saying anything in front of other. I'm scared, will people think my ideas are cool? Will they accept me? Will they think more about me?
So many unanswered questions! I always felt bad about myself because I'm not able to share my true opinion, agreed with others. Even the pressure was too high it squash my thoughts. I changed my thoughts and lifestyle for other.
I lost all hopes and was trying to be what other people wanted me to be. At the end, I lost myself in impressing other.
Earlier, I love to talk a lot with everyone, but due to this incident I start ignoring people.
I start spending time in library and start gaining new habits. I love to read comic books, novels.
Books are very positive and carry bunch of different knowledge, with the help of books I build up self-esteem. Books change my whole life.
I must says, reading book is really good habit, it gives you various technique or ideas to overcome your problems.
Team of Individual always rock!
Every individual is different and each brings something special to the world. All are different, your background, genetics, upbringing, as well as your experiences. You learn from your experience. Even your perspective defer from others due to different experiences.
Don't put any limitations in your life. You can do every single thing in your life. Just boost up yourself and give your level best.
Live together, work together,and increase power of your work!
Don't feel shy or don't demoralise yourself. Fight for your goals and achieve it with your power.
Discuss and debate if you are not agreed. You need to push each other to bring out best. Remove one thing from your life- what other people think. This thought always put limit in your life and it's really hard to live. Be yourself and work hard.
Respect other as well their ideas. Don't ignore anyone's idea everyone are born to express. So, support and grow together. Be careful before you speak it may hurt someone's intension. Everyone is hyper-sensitive think about other feelings and condition.
No one is perfect! Rather than pleasing someone change yourself. Be positive, support other and respect their thoughts, but it doesn't mean you have to agree with everybody. In fact, discussion and debate are essential to bring out reality.
Respect and agreement both concepts are totally different. You have to care deeply about other intentions, but at the same time have zero care about what they think about you. You can simply say I love and respect your concept, but I'm not agreed with you. Even you disagree behave nicely.
Conclusion -
Don't let the fear of disappointing someone, or making someone mad or hurting someone's feelings get in your way. You all are different and wanted love from others, but try to understand that, sometimes, we may not be liked. Learn from your experiences and enjoy your life.
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