Bitter Truth About Life You Can't Avoid.

Life inevitably slaps you in the face.

You can try as long as you possibly can to avoid it, but it’s coming all the way long.

I know it sounds bit depressing, because few people consider it in this way. In fact, there’s always some reason behind existence of depression. Life becomes pretty hard and unmanageable. And words are not enough for expressing the toughness of life. Even it goes way deeper than that, full of frustration and irritation. You become too sensitive and try to avoid others. It’s really a heart-breaking situation.

I know, I know, because I faced that phase at one point in my life. It was unforgettable and terrible phase of my life.

Losing mates, parents, multiple failed friendships and stuck in a career plan. Such an off full time it was.

Totally horrible, lots of blame, being a victim it was really tough time. And it demotivated me so badly.

But fortunately, I found the right way on time. You always do if you give it enough time. I know, sometimes everything goes wrong and push you down badly. But try to understand the situation, stand up and fight for it.

Always remember one thing, life will hit you very badly and check your courage. As soon as possible accept this fact, life is tough and will never be easy.

You learn various experiences from every single failure; accept it with positive thoughts and heart.

Try hard and achieve your goals.

You know what!
You become a better person after facing your failure.

Now, let’s see some bitter truths of life –

First of all,

1.      People will take advantage of you and get away with it

Sometimes, it is important to set some boundaries in your life. You’re matured enough to differentiate between right and wrong. So, set boundaries in initial stages.  

But remember, everyone comes to teach you some lesson in your life. I know it is hard to accept, but accept this truth. Positivity is the key to boost your energy.

I was a doormat, for many of the friend. I was easy to take advantage of; I always tried anything I could to keep the friendship afloat.

They snuffled it out and used it in their favour.

Don’t blame yourself for any misfortune. Learn from it and try to avoid such situations in your life.

Remember, it’s a human nature to take advantage where you can. Think in a positive direction. I know it makes you sad, but you gain some experience.

Why people compare their life with other?

Sometimes, you hurt your close ones for your happiness.

Isn’t it?

Earlier, I blame people who took advantage of me, I can’t stop myself. I’m the one who took faulty decisions. It’s a tough time. I had the choice to walk away, but I didn’t.

Accept your weakness and work on them. Even with boundaries, people will consequently take advantage of you and you won’t see it coming. So, just relax and enjoy your life. It’s part of your life and you have to face them.

2.      Even with hard work, things don’t always work out.

Sometimes, even after hard work you face the failure!

Usually, people have this conception that hard work always leads to success!

Hard work pays off for sure, but are you working in right direction or in right way?

 There are two types of people in this world:

a)      Who work hard even after a lot of failures.

b)      Who skip their goals after a single failure.

      Isn’t?

    The conception that hard work equals success is true.

    But you have to work hard for long period of time to achieve success. Defiantly, it took time.

    Success only follows you when you put all of your efforts and patiently wait for it.

    Learn from your failure, avoid those mistakes and work hard day by day.

   One fine day,

   Yes, one fine day, success touches your feet.

   Just wait for it!

3.      People walk out of your life without explanation, even if you deserve one.

I think we’ve all experienced this with our friends and partners.

People come and go in your life for some specific reasons. They are as sugary as Jalebi; as peppery as chilly flakes.

Friends have done real damages in my life.

As much as you deserve an explanation, they don’t have to give you one.

       You are the only one, who can heal your pain. You have to be mature enough to avoid such people who hurt you.  Be confident and face your instincts. 

         
       Motivate yourself and boost up you positive energy. Understand the situation and handle yourself. Accept it and you’ll be fine in no days.

         Live your life happily!

       Stop looking for any explanation to survive and move on. It’s far better to flush them out of  your life as soon as possible.

       Life will teach you a lot many different lesson wait  for it patiently!

       Stay happy and choose your mates wisely.

             Life is tough, my darling, so are you.

-        Stephanic Bennett Henry