Thought Winter Brings to Mind.

Welcome, winter. Your late dawns and chilled breath make me lazy, but I love you nonetheless. "
--Terri Guillemets

Winter knock the door and came along with happy festivals.

Hey, Winter!
Finally you are here.
In our city
In our town.

Do you know.
How much we missed you?
You are too late this time.
Now give us your vibes.

Every year, 
We wait for you 
Because mate you are so cool.
Damn cool.

Those cold winds
Shakes our mind!
Oh! Winter
You are so fine.

It's a season 
To celebrate and party.
You came with fun vibes.
Those vibes light up the sky.

Everyone looks so cute
In their heavy clothes.
Hellow, panda here
Ready to roll!

It's a season
To wear hot scarf,
And enjoy hot coffee!
Feel the vibes.

Trends changes with time.
So, hurry up
And grab clothes of your choice.
Hurry up!

Ho ho ho
Finally! It's time to celebrate
Christmas Christmas
Merry Christmas.

We know 
Yes, we all know 
Our parents lie to us
All about Santa Claus!

Still we hope
And wait for our gift.
Lots of wish in mind
And wait for Santa all time.

In the cold winter air,
Our breath becomes visible.
And it's look like 
We've been vaping all time.

We are blessed 
You are here.
Let's go!
Enjoy the season.

The one thing I do every single day

Books to the ceiling, Books to the sky, My pile of books is a mile high. How I love them! How I need them! I’ll have a long beard by the time I read them.” – Arnold Lobel

Reading is such a good habit.

I always feel delightful when I read.

Reading is the only habit which change my whole life!

People think readers and writers are boring. No, guys it's totally wrong. Being a judgemental human you put a tag on every individuals.

During my Bachelor's, I face a lot many ups and downs in my life and I'm okay with it. Life is not easy, you have to face a lot many things and it helps you in your growth. 

I don't like to share my problems with everyone. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I'm talkative but chossy too. 

I always look for so many answers. I know everyone is different as well as their perception. So, I want to talk to them about many different situation as well as scenario, but I quite because it's bit akward to share your things with everyone. 

People always say books carries bundles of knowledge, but I don't know whether it's right or not.

I run to my college library it's to huge and carries a lot many different books. 

For very first few minutes I'm bit confused.

Too many books 
How I can solve my problems.
Which one helps me the best
Or they are not capable?

Too many questions hits my mind.
May be I'm right,
Selection is not going to be easy
As I think.

All books carries knowledge!
Just selection your choice.
Don't see the book
Read it and get it.

Reading is delightful!
It brings joy.
People say readers are leaders.
May be they are right.

So, what are you thinking.
Get up and choice your book
Read it thoroughly
And feel it.

Too many books scares me. I run back in the corridor and think twice, I call my friend first and let me invite. I need answers but confused with books. 

Which one is right for me and solve my problems.

I see my seniors sitting inside. They helps me out in chossing best book as a beginner. 

My first read is "The Dairy of Anne Frank".

Such a marvelous book , it talks about ups and downs Anne faces during her entire life. 

This book boost my strength and for few days I'm  thinking madly about her life as well as her struggles. Being a brave girl she never lose hope in any situation.

Work hard until you achieve it!!

Life is full of typical situations just face it. Never lose hope in any situation. It teaches you some life lessons.

So, be ready for the new adventures fellows!!

Now, I always carry two things with me.
A book and a note book.

Read, read, and read!

I Care About How I Spend My Time Now.

If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.” — Bruce Lee

I live my life differently now that I am 21. I always think about the quality of time. Almost every single time I think about ALL the activities. 

Now a days, you are more involve in virtual world! You don't even know how much time you are spoiling.

Virtual world plays more important role than  real world for you.

Every single mintue you check your cellphone and kill your precious time.

Life is so damn short. Spend it wisely!

Now, I plan my whole day and go according to the routine/plan. Set your priorities first. 

If you really want to change your life than notice your moves, how you are killing your time. It helps you a lot. At the end of the day, just memorize your whole day and tell yourself are you satisfied or not.

Definitely it will take time, but be patience!

Rather than blaming yourself just plan your days. And be true to yourself.

My story

Few days back my father asked me do you even know how are you spoiling your entire day.

I'm very upset because I don't like when someone scold me or point me out, but this is a serious scenario.

At night I sit silently in my room and memorising my day. 
What I do?
How much time I spend on social media?
And may more questions.

After few minutes, I realise that my father is right.
I spend my whole day on mobile while playing games or chatting with someone or may be by talking with my friends!

I get up late in the morning and regret at the end of the day. 
Blaming on time- I don't have enough time for any productive work.

But I'm wrong.

You have enough time and you can do whatever your want, but you have to plan first.

Points

First, make a to do list and then follow it.
Set your priorities.
Give importance to your work.
Concentrate on your aim and perform your actions wisely.

Most importantly be calm.

What are you doing Human!?

Everyone wants to change their habits, but no one wants to put any efforts.
Why?

Look! If you wants to bring some changes in your life as well as in your behaviour. You need to work on it.

You are so invovle and kill your time in social media. Entertainment is important, but do you know how much time and energy you waste every single day!

Try to put some limit in your life or forget about changes.

You are the only who  can change your life.
No one else is going to help you out.

I know, I know some of you love to spend time with others and that's totally fine.
But,
What about yourself?
Do you ever think about self improvement or self care.

Most probably no!
Why?

You are too busy in other problems.
 If possible help them out.

But think about yourself too.
Gain new good habits.

I must say, every single human have to built a good reading habit. Slowly, slowly you gain interest. 

For sure, it will take time, but at least give it a try.

Start with easy book or may be comics.
Just read as per your capacity.
One page, 2 pages, or 10 pages as per your capacity.

Then increase your level slowly and calmly.

Gradually, you built your reading habit.

You always look for some solutions in your life!
Even a lot many questions are unanswered.
Right?

Books are the best thing in this entire world.
It carries all the solutions or various problems.

I know
You are busy
But, 
Think deeply are you okay?

Are you happy
Or looking for some answers.
Ask questions to yourself
And know your own self!

Being a good human
Help others!
But what about self-esteem?
Think about it!

Are you still sleeping...?

People say wake up early in the morning and do some productive work.
All of you are familiar with this lines!
Right?

And what you do?
Watch videos to motivate your inner strength.
Make to do list.
Encourage yourself to wake up early in the morning.
And many more..

And the story begin!

Very first day, you are super excited for your new plan. You set your alarm as well as sleep on time at night. 

First few days, you are very enthusiastic for your new routine. 
You go for a morning walk and feel the positive vibes. You feel fresh and motivated. Even you tell most of your friends hey, listen you know what - I start a new routine. 
Don't you?

And after few days,

You are back in your warm blankets!
Correct?

Haha I know it's pretty common.
You always feel motivated for just few days. Why?

Do you know the reason behind such failure?

Wait.
Let me explain you.

Actually, first few days you train your mind happily. All the thoughts are positive. You avoid all the negative thoughts from your mind and life. And you wants to change your lazy behavior.

And than,
You feel tired!
You feel low.
And again you gain negative thoughts in your mind.

Setting a goal and aim is easy, but for that you have to sacrifice a lot many things.

Just continue your routine for 21 days and see the change.(For more details read a book name " The monk who sold his Ferrari".)

Gain new good habit and live happy and healthy life.

Wake up, human
Wake up!
And start your day.
Sit outside 
And fell sun rays.

It's not easy
I know!
But challenge
Your inner strength.
And see the change in few days.

You feel happy all day.
Stay healthy and fit.
Human motivate yourself
And let's begin the challenge.
Ready?

Scared to trust?

Till now, you meet a lot many people in your life.

Even you put a tag on them.

Right?

Reliable; Unreliable.

Why?

May be because they hurts you, or disappoint you.

Right?

So, what?

Due to one bad moment you tag them with heavy words like unreliable, untrustworthy, shifty.

Look every human is different so as their nature.

Don't judge them, you don't have any right to judge anyone. 

And if you set your mind with such concepts then just forget and forgive human.

I'm not saying to trust every individual!

But if you don't trust anyone then why don't you forget them?

Why you talks about them?

Even you forward your thoughts to others by saying 

Hey, don't talk to him/her. They don't know the meaning of trust.

It's OK if you don't like them. Forget it and just move on.

Most of the time you are the one who spoil your own mood, due to overthinking.

You are badly attach and you are not able to forget your memories with them.

Right?

If their thoughts are running in your mind again and again, just do one thing. Stand up and motivate yourself and go towards them and clarify all the doubts or troubles. 

Most of the time you imagine things or due to overthinking you are blaming them, but I'm sure you need to give one more chance.

Mostly, due to your ego factor you keep quite. 

I'll not approach them!

Being a human think in a positive direction. 

Give it a try, then you decide what to do next.

If you don't wants to spend more time with them then forget and forgive them.

Forgiving someone is not easy, you need a lot of guts. If you really cares then remove your ego factor from your life.

I personally believe in these two words 

Forget & forgive!

Hey, you!

Are you listening to me?

If yes,

Then forgive all silly mistakes

of others.

If you really wants to live peacefully.

Grow up and kill your ego.

One fine day!

Yes, one fine day.

You will see the change.

Definitely it take time.

But you will see the change

Just be patient 

And polite.

Reaction changes the situation

React calm and feel free.

I know it's hard,

But 

Hey, don't forget you are strong.

Right?

Don't spoil your mood and mind

It effects your health.

You cares a lot about others

What about your health.

You human are so silly

Just for others

You spoil yourself.

Comparison is a waste of energy.

Comparison misses the whole point of your life - to be you. 
You all are unique in your own ways.

To be the unique once-in- humankind blends of gifts, passions, interests, and magic that you are.

Comparison kills your unique features and decreases your motivation towards your goals and ambition.

Hey, you pretty soul.
Yes, you!
I'm talking to you.
You are smart, intelligent,
powerful, and brave.

Every individual is different
So, don't feel bad.
You are perfect!
Just be yourself.
Just be yourself.

Why are you wasting
your time and energy?
Just for silly comparison.
Don't fool yourself.
Just be yourself.

No one is perfect!
Yes, no one is perfect.
So, just stop comparing
yourself with any individual.
Just be yourself.

Stop comparing!
And start living!
See the change in your behaviour.
Just love yourself.
You are incomparable!

Comparison feel bad because it is out of alignment the truth - that you are incomparable. 

You all are valuable and shine in your own way like diamonds and rubies.

Time doesn't define friendship, we do.

You meet different sort of people during different phase of you life.

You go through school and then settle down for your work.

Some of them you call  "friends".
Very few, "best friend".
And other you call as faint memory, because you don't like them much.

With time everything flip their position, priorities changes. 

I personally like having few close friends vs hundreds of casual friends. With time, I start losing my friends one by one. May be due to distance or conflicts. But as I grow older, perceptive of living changes as well as it increases fights in between my close ones. Friends who plays very important role in my life switch their sides, but it's ok. 

Earlier you don't have any aim or goals to fulfill, but as you grow older and older, lots of  things comes in your life and your priorities changes. Priorities like your career, your partner, your daily chores and unaccomplished goals.

Distance is more as well as you start feeling like a stranger. New lifestyle and very less intercation with friends kills your bond.

You always recalls your old days and memories. The way you enjoy you day with your close friends.

It's very common friends "come and go", but don't feel bad. This is normal. This is life.

Don't blame time for any situation.

Turning point 

"Hey, don't worry. 'We'll always be best friend".

Those were the last words my best friend said to me before I released her form hug.

I was about to fly to Gujarat for my further studies. I can't forget that day. I cried badly in front of her before I left, because I know it turns our life into different phases. I lose all my hope.
And to be honest,  I wasn't sure if we'd have the time to chat as we usually do!

People always invest more time with their work and in those who are (physically) there for them.
It's not her fault.

All of us need someone by our side to share our lives with while we grow.
Right?

Most of the time I saw our photos and re- read our chats.
So with tears and cracked heart, I trudged back home with no hope.

Sad and upset face I entered my house, and I got surprise visit!

Guess who?!

OMG Shalu, it's been two years already and you look better than I saw you!

Whole scenario changes again.
We cried again.
Hell! We meet again.
Lots of talk and fights,
But still
I love you my best friend.

It was then I realized, it's totally up to us and our mutual love and understanding. Our willingness to shift our priorities and to keep our friendship strong.

Take action and don't blame it on time. It shows wether the spark of friendship will keep burning or die.

Take an initiative and feel happy as well as satisfied.
 Don't put any blame on anyone!

You are the one who defines your friendship mate.

Find out the positivity inside you!

Good morning beautiful people.

Do you plan your day? 
Or just go with a flow.

Every single day is special for you.
Try something new,
Learn something new.
Think in different directions,
Explore and enjoy the vibes.

It's a new day.
Feel good and happy.
Every single day comes with positive note.
So, start your day 
With motivation and energy.

Do whatever you like.
Being a sensitive soul forgive others.
Spread happiness and positivity.
And see the change!
And see the change.

Happy or sad
It's just a phase of life.
Learn and grow bright.
Feel the vibes!
Just feel the vibes.

Humans are know for positivity.
Don't hurt someone
Respect and love others.
Be your own guide,
And life a happy life.

Swing A Swing?

Ever tried swinging for the very 
first time?
Terrible!
Isn't it?
The risk of failing down are
too great and you don't feel like
Doing it!
What if I fell off?
What if I fail!


But then! 
You find out!
That the very smallest 
amount of courage that
you possess
Can make things fun!



The concept of life is 
very similar!
Once you learn to fall or fail..!
You never once stop to try and 
successful..!
Because in the middle of the failures
and at the end of the swing..

There is Success and Joy